I truly cannot compare the two schools I’ve been at.. that
would be unfair. The circumstances are totally different. I am lucky enough to
find and make some really, really, realllllly good friends at both locations.
Like.. life long friends that I would trust with just about anything. I don’t
know if everyone has that at their work places, and I am very grateful that I
have been able to find that!!
There is one glaring difference between my friends at HMS
and my friends at GMS. At GMS, I have married friends. I’ve considered if I
naturally gravitated towards them since I am now married myself.. but I think
these people and I were just meant to be. We have our own group on Snapchat and
our own group on text with our very own clique name. We come from different
backgrounds and have different beliefs, but we are all excellent teachers and
love our students…. And we’re pretty cool and funny too.
One of my favorite texts happened this weekend, “Ok. How do
you keep your husbands from eating things intended for recipes during the
week?!?!!” Ha it was funny because it’s happened to me too!!! I didn’t really
have an answer.. actually I’m not sure anyone answered. Has anyone figured out
this question to life!?
Also, they understand when I have to sleep in the bed by
myself. Last weekend I was creeping on someone in my life and didn’t want to
screenshot their snapchat… so I texted one of the girls and said hey.. will you
have your husband record the snapchat on your phone… because Travis is out of
town. And she did it!! Except she had to do it like five times because she kept
laughing and I needed to send it to someone important.
We can also discuss important things like money. Not the
specifics, of course… but it’s really nice to be able to have a discussion with
a married person about money. Everything from “who is the money person” which I
despise… mainly because just because I don’t check the online bank every hour,
doesn’t mean I’m not a money person. But to saving for a down payment on a
house, to eventually moving because families are expanding.. it’s really nice
to be able to communicate with a married person who gets it.
They’re also the first people that text you when they hear
the school is on lockdown after school yesterday. Besides my mom and husband,
it was them I was texting.. as I sat in my assistant principal’s office for
nearly two hours. They were the people that were concerned for me and everyone
else on campus. They were also the people that have a soft spot for a student
that is crying out. (Sidenote: he had a bb gun and was never on campus, just
close by) But it was a long two hours and I was appreciative to those immediate
texts that said, “If you’re at school, I’m praying for you.”
Needless to say, as I was reflecting about my school year
and that day specifically, I just kept coming back to how great my married
friends are.
They lit.